My mum told me a story that her father told her when she was young, and she told me one day. The story is about how you treat your parents and how your children will treat you back. It's call retribution. Pardon my English, lol....i know it's bad....if don't understand my english, nvm i write chinese for you.

In the past, there was a farmer, it consist of three generations, grandfather, father and son. The grandfather is very old le, so one day, there were a big basket that can put a human in, the father asked his son to bring the basket to the front and put the grandfather inside the basket. The son was puzzled, he do not know why father is doing that. So later on, his father asked his son to carry the basket which contain his grandfather up to the hill and put the basket there and come back quickly. So the son did what his father asked him to do. But guess what, the son bring back the basket but without the grandfather. So the father was puzzled, he asked his son, why did you bring back the basket? his son answerd, so that i could put you in into the basket when you are old!!! The father was shocked, and he ordered his son to bring his grandfather back to the farm!...

从前有一农夫, 他家里有三个接代, 公公, 爸爸和儿子. 公公已经很老了. 有一天, 家里有一个大蓝子, 刚好可以放一个人, 于是爸爸就叫儿子把蓝子拿来前面把公公放进去. 可是儿子不明白为什么爸爸要这样做? 接下来, 爸爸又叫儿子把蓝子(公公在里面)杠去山上, 然后把蓝子放在那里, 就快点回来. 于是儿子就照做. 过了一下子, 儿子回来了, 他带着蓝子回来, 不过里面没公公了. 于是, 爸爸觉的奇怪, 就问儿子为什么把蓝子拿回来? 儿子回答爸爸说, 以后你老了, 我也可以把你放进去. 爸爸被吓到, 就叫儿子把公公带会来.

Moral of the story: treat your parents good...!

Qing obsessed with jay chou 12:41 AM

A day to batam trip....hmmm...not bad....different experience compare to last 2 years....which i went with ite classmate...

went to temple and a few places....but didn't get to shop much...but i had my first experience there....!....guess wat?.....i had my first leg and shoulder massage for 1 and 1/2 hr....for $20......i was so nervous....hmmm.... a little painful but overall is good!!!....quite comfortable after massage...didn't take any photo because nothing much to nice to take also....haha...=)

Qing obsessed with jay chou 10:02 PM

Going batam tml....went to sing k with ah gu....we sang for about 6 hrs at clementi kbox....and was initally only for 4 hrs....but actually can sing more....but...i think nothing much to sing some more tired so we just go off lor..haha...though cost 20 bucks but definitely worth the singing!!...

tml have to wake up early for batam...good night!

Qing obsessed with jay chou 11:51 PM

a quiz taken from Fb which i find it rather true...ha!

Dear Toh Lai Qing, below are your Personality Tests result:Who is your true self: You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

Your view on yourself: Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : You are down-to-earth:maybeƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄ Ʒ : People like you because you are so straightforward: not too sure Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties:true

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking: Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : You like seriousƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄:trueƷ : SmartƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄:trueƷ : Determined people:trueƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : You don't judge a book by its cover:erm...i think true?Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : So good-looking people aren't necessarily your styleƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄:erm...ya...Ʒ : This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes:ha...i dunno?

Your readiness to commit to a relationship: Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship: true

The seriousness of your love: Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sexƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄: not true Ʒ : In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractiveƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄: i dunnoe?Ʒ : So you will find yourself with plenty of dates:no...lol

Your views on education: Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : Education is less important than the real world out there:trueƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : Away from the classroomƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄:trueƷ : Deep inside you want to start workingƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄:very trueƷ : Earning money:trueƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : Living on your own:erm...maybe?


The right job for you: Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : You're a practical personƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄:true Ʒ : Will choose a secure job with a steady incomeƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄:trueƷ : Knowing what you like to do is important:true!!Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : Find a regular job doing just thatƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄:??Ʒ : You'll be set for life:??

How do you view success: Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen careerƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄:maybe?Ʒ : Nothing will stop you from trying:true!

What are you most afraid of: Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ : You are afraid of things that you cannot controlƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄:true Ʒ : Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel:ha..maybe?

somehow i find it true for this personality test...lol...most of it...

Qing obsessed with jay chou 12:31 AM

saved my leg trip again....thankies..!

Qing obsessed with jay chou 11:08 PM

Millions thanks to alan kor kor for the ride to my home today...thanks...lol....saved my leg trip......anyway, i'm hoping to go to the universal studio soon!!!...many plans for this holidays!!!....=)

Qing obsessed with jay chou 12:16 AM

i brought my itouch today...hee...happy....and finally all ut are down and i'm officially declare holidays!!!!.....OP today was quite easy...but dunnoe can do well anot...hehe.....anyway....happy new year to all!!!!....hopefully collect lots of ang bao...!

Qing obsessed with jay chou 12:53 AM

i'm very tired....boutique is busy and have to pack outside the fair too.......bone breaking soon....burn midnight oil to study alittle for tml ut, because previous ut i failed siah.....so sad....i must buck up for tml ut.....which is last le!!!hippy!!



i changed my mind....i think i get itouch instead...haha....

Qing obsessed with jay chou 1:11 AM

left two more exams, last exam on fri and i'm officially declare holidays till mid of apr...woohoo! two months of holidays and i'm going to work like mad as i wanna earn as much of money before a new term start!!.... A new semester start i will be in final year for poly...after much struggling for two years...finally come to final year le....going to jia you and complete my diploma course.

pay coming in tml and i think i'm going to get my ipod nano on fri....haiz...like this $228 gone.... this month...alot of days working in crocodile and i'm going on a trip to thailand next month!.... excited and looking forward.....!!!...gonna keep my promise to buy jasmine two tees in thailand!!

and on 24th going to batam for one day to just walk around....

going to sleep soon...exams at 0830 tml..... wish me good luck!!!

Qing obsessed with jay chou 12:25 AM

i nearly quarrelled witth two korean girl today....over a small thing...and they could actually shout at me when i talk to them nicely.....i used to think korean ppl are very nice ppl...but now...i dun think so.....this is the first time in crocodile boutique, i was being shouted and i nearly quarrelled with customer.....maybe....my temper and torelence...wasn't that good and that is me..! haiz.....wat to do.......work is like that...have to torelate torelate and torelate....

F*ck up!

Qing obsessed with jay chou 12:18 AM

totally no mood to study...and no motivation at all....OP faci said in my rj that my rj was 90% copied and plagirism. This was wat she said "LEO has picked up about 90% of your RJ was not original or someone else has sent this in before for grading. Hence, this RJ is as good as you haven't done at all. If you are copying your own work or from some internet websites for this RJ question, do learn to copy smartly by citation such that LEO would not pick up this plagiarism tab. This is a offence in RP. Hence, this RJ is not acceptable for grading. And don't be lazy to write your own reflections. Anyway, you still have not answer to the RJ questions."

damn...her rj was always difficult and i always need to brainstorm the most, and was often being said that i did not answered her rj. This time, i find it in internet for the example, that she asked me to give, and she said i copied. i admit lah..is my wrong...but....is her fault to make the rj so difficult....haiz

Anyway, work is tiring....and money haven in yet.....should i get a ipod this month? and go for thailand trip next month? all this need money!!!...need to find other lobangs!!

Qing obsessed with jay chou 10:02 AM